It's frustrating when someone seems interested one moment and then pulls away the next. There are several possible reasons for this behavior:
Fear of Vulnerability: He might be genuinely interested but scared of getting hurt. Opening up and being vulnerable can be frightening, so he might pull back as a self-protective mechanism. This could link to Fear of Intimacy or Avoidant Attachment Style.
Mixed Feelings: He could have conflicted emotions about you or the potential relationship. He might enjoy your company but have reservations about commitment, long-term compatibility, or other factors.
Testing the Waters: He might be unconsciously testing your reaction to his distance. He could be trying to gauge your level of interest or see how you'll respond when he's not constantly showering you with attention. This could be related to Playing Games in dating.
External Factors: The reason for his behavior might have nothing to do with you. He could be dealing with stress at work, family issues, or personal problems that are affecting his ability to connect.
Lack of Confidence: He may doubt himself and sabotage the budding relationship as he worries he is not good enough. Low Self-Esteem may be the reason he acts this way.
He's not that interested: Unfortunately, it's also possible that he's simply not that interested in a serious relationship with you, or at least not as interested as you are in him. His interest might be fleeting or situational.
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